But the occasion is marred by what is missing: There will be no cattle given to the Duk-Fuel family today, historically the central transaction at this ritual.
Negotiations [agreements; discussions] used to be held in which the boy’s family agreed to give cows, sometimes as many as 100, to the Dinka girl’s relatives; several families would make such overtures [proposals; offers] toward a single girl, in a process akin to competitive bidding.
a tentative suggestion to elicit the reactions of others
Negotiations [agreements; discussions] used to be held in which the boy’s family agreed to give cows, sometimes as many as 100, to the Dinka girl’s relatives; several families would make such overtures [proposals; offers] toward a single girl, in a process akin to competitive bidding.