politeness

/pəˈlaɪtnɪs/

/pəˈlaɪtnɪs/

Other forms: politenesses

The way you act when you're respectful, thoughtful, and kind towards others is politeness. It's politeness that makes you say "Thank you!" when someone hands you the pen you dropped.

Politeness and polite come from a Latin root, politus, which means "polished," but also "refined and elegant." Politeness is especially important in certain situations — politeness when meeting the Queen of England means a deep curtsy or bow, while politeness at your grandparents' house means saying "please" and volunteering to wash the dishes after dinner.

Definitions of politeness

1. noun

   a courteous manner that respects accepted social usage
   synonyms: niceness

   antonyms:

   impoliteness

   a discourteous manner that ignores accepted social usage

   type of:

   courtesy, good manners

   a courteous manner
2. noun

   the act of showing regard for others
   synonyms: civility

   types:

   courtesy

   a courteous or respectful or considerate act

   deference, respect

   a courteous expression (by word or deed) of esteem or regard

   devoir

   formal expression of respect

   attention

   a courteous act indicating affection

   gallantry

   polite attentiveness to women

   court, homage

   respectful deference

   last respects

   the act of expressing respect for someone who has died

   props

   proper respect

   type of:

   action

   something done (usually as opposed to something said)